Today I want talk about the best lover in the world.  This man is so good to you, I mean what man do you know would be faithful to you even when you’re not, would love you in spite of all your flaws, knows the “real you” more than anybody and still says, “I love you.”  Even before you were born, this man loved you.  Even when you weren’t even thinking about him and did him wrong, even before you received him into your life – he still loved you.  I mean, this man loves you so much, that he wasn’t just willing to take a bullet for you, he suffered, bled and died for you!  He willingly allowed his hands and feet to be nailed to a cross and suffered for three days, just because he had you on his mind.  You were the joy set before him.   You were his reason for living.  What person in their right mind would deny this man’s love?  Jesus is the Best Lover, period.

Because Jesus is the Best Lover to me, I choose to remain faithful to Him.  Sure, I’m not perfect, but I’m not about to purposely cheat on Him by having sex outside of marriage or do Him wrong on purpose.  He loved me enough to die for me, so the least I can do is give my life, my body, my soul and my spirit to Him as well.  Thank God for His grace and mercy when I make a mistake, but I’m not about to take His grace for granted.

How many of us take God’s grace for granted?

It kinda reminds me of a woman crying, “Where are all the good men?  There are no good men out here!” But then when she gets a good man who treats her like a queen, respects her body and loves her soul – she then dogs him out.  She cheats on him, disrespects him in public, and degrades him with every opportunity.  Yet he still sticks around and loves her unconditionally in spite of how she treats him.  How many men do you know would stick around?  Most men I know realize that there are a sea of women out here and won’t put up with any crap from one.  But yet still our Heavenly Father chooses to love us, even when we cheat on Him by continuing to have sex as unmarried believers, which is truly outside of His perfect will for our lives.

In my new book, How To Date and Stay Saved, I talk about how our main relationship should be our relationship with God, and that subsequent relationships with people should never hinder or harm our main relationship, but instead cause us to grow closer to Him.

If Jesus is the Best Lover to you, reward Him by giving Him your love, your time, and your life – for real.

Scriptures to Meditate:
Romans 5:8
Hebrews 12:2

Kim Brooks, author of bestselling novels, She That Findeth, He\'s Fine...But is He Saved? and more.

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A refreshing voice for today’s Christian single, Kim Brooks is the Award-winning, National Bestselling author of novel, He's Fine...But is He Saved? its sequel and her latest novel, She That Findeth - an Atria/Simon & Schuster release. As a licensed minister, she is also the author of several self-help books and eBooks including, How To Date and Stay Saved and Singles, Overcome! A former guest columnist for Gospel Today and with appearances on The Word Network and in EBONY Magazine, Kim Brooks shares, through the Word of God, how it is possible to live an exciting, purpose-driven, drama-free abstinent until marriage lifestyle in the perfect will of God. Subscribe to her free daily devotional for singles, which reaches thousands globally, and for more information about her books and booking visit