Want to know how to change a man? The answer is, um, you can’t!

However, there is some good news…there is someone who actually change a man…and that someone is God.

Check out the following excerpt from my latest book, :



Only God Can Change Someone

Don’t think that if a person doesn’t possess a certain quality that you admire that you can change someone into something he’s not.

Again, you cannot change a man; only God can change someone.

So know that while you’re dating someone, as you get to know a person over time, realize what you watch and see, is what you get.

When you make the decision to accept and continue dating and eventually marry a person, you accept them for who they are, flaws and all, and not for the person you pray that they will one day become.


Please note: the statement, “…realize what you watch and see, is what you get” is referenced from the following Scripture, in which the word, watch, means, to observe.

Watch and pray, that ye enter not into temptation: the spirit indeed is willing, but the flesh is weak. Matthew 26:41

Kim Brooks, author of bestselling novels, She That Findeth, He\'s Fine...But is He Saved? and more. www.kimontheweb.com

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A refreshing voice for today’s Christian single, Kim Brooks is the Award-winning, National Bestselling author of novel, He's Fine...But is He Saved? its sequel and her latest novel, She That Findeth - an Atria/Simon & Schuster release. As a licensed minister, she is also the author of several self-help books and eBooks including, How To Date and Stay Saved and Singles, Overcome! A former guest columnist for Gospel Today and with appearances on The Word Network and in EBONY Magazine, Kim Brooks shares, through the Word of God, how it is possible to live an exciting, purpose-driven, drama-free abstinent until marriage lifestyle in the perfect will of God. Subscribe to her free daily devotional for singles, which reaches thousands globally, and for more information about her books and booking visit www.KimOnTheWeb.com