Following are 3 ways to tell if you’re really over your ex-boyfriend. If you discover that you’re not totally over him and that your heart has been broken, then please allow the Scriptures following the mini-test to heal you and make you whole. Repeat them out loud to get them ingrained in your spirit to let the healing within begin today.

If you’re guilty of any of the following then you may not truly be over your ex:

1. You still talk about him to your girlfriends, your mother, your sister, or anyone who has an ear to hear. Whether what you share about him is good or bad, if he’s still on your mouth, he’s still on your mind.

2. You consistently or even periodically check his Facebook page or other social networking sites for his latest update mainly to, as you tell yourself, “just check on him,” but really you do it to ‘read between the lines’ and see if he’s gotten a new girlfriend yet, or if he’s still thinking about you.

3. You often find yourself still daydreaming and meditating about good times with him and the fun times the two of you shared – while often conveniently not being able to recall all the bad times, which were the main reasons the two of you broke up in the first place. Remember, ya’ll broke up with each other for a reason.


If you fall into any one of these categories with your ex, then you may not really be over him yet and your heart may still be broken.

No worries, though, because starting today you can choose to not talk about him anymore, not check his Facebook page anymore, and meditate on the future that God has for you which doesn’t include him – starting today you can choose to move on.

Philippians 3:13-14 Brethren, I count not myself to have apprehended: but this one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind, and reaching forth unto those things which are before, I press toward the mark for the prize of the high calling of God in Christ Jesus.

Also, here are more Scriptures to heal and mend a broken heart:

Psalms 73:26 My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever.

Isaiah 41:10 fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.

Matthew 11:28-30 Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.”

John 14:27 Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you. Not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your hearts be troubled, neither let them be afraid.

2 Corinthians 12:9 But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my strength is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may rest upon me.

Psalms 55:22 Cast your burden on the LORD, and he will sustain you; he will never permit the righteous to be moved.

Psalms 107:20 He sent out his word and healed them, and delivered them from their destruction.

Psalms 147:3 He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.

Proverbs 3:5-6 Trust in the LORD with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths.

1 Peter 2:24 He himself bore our sins in his body on the tree, that we might die to sin and live to righteousness. By his wounds you have been healed.

Kim Brooks, author of bestselling novels, She That Findeth, He\'s Fine...But is He Saved? and more.

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A refreshing voice for today’s Christian single, Kim Brooks is the Award-winning, National Bestselling author of novel, He's Fine...But is He Saved? its sequel and her latest novel, She That Findeth - an Atria/Simon & Schuster release. As a licensed minister, she is also the author of several self-help books and eBooks including, How To Date and Stay Saved and Singles, Overcome! A former guest columnist for Gospel Today and with appearances on The Word Network and in EBONY Magazine, Kim Brooks shares, through the Word of God, how it is possible to live an exciting, purpose-driven, drama-free abstinent until marriage lifestyle in the perfect will of God. Subscribe to her free daily devotional for singles, which reaches thousands globally, and for more information about her books and booking visit