Even though you’re not married, it’s still possible to become
a wife before you say, “I Do.”
Scripture admonishes men in Proverbs 18:22, He that findeth a wife
findeth a good thing and obtaineth favor of the Lord…not he that
findeth a girlfriend, or he that findeth a “chick on the side” – no he that
findeth a WIFE, which means she should already be a wife and
already possess the character qualities of wife on the inside (even
though it hadn’t manifested yet on the outside) before he even meets her.
Oftentimes, as single women the enemy likes to throw things
in our minds like, “You’re not really wife material,” or, we may not have had examples in our lives of a happily,
drama-free married couple growing up. Our parents may
have gotten divorced or we may have memories of growing
up in a household laden with arguments, fights, and
anything but peace.If that’s the case with you, be of good cheer because even
though you may not have had an example growing up, you
have the Greater One within and the Holy Ghost on the
inside to teach you how to be a wife.Our lives and how we respond and react does not have to be
based on our upbringing.
No longer can we have the excuse, “My mom is like this, my sisters are like this, so this is just how I am.”
The Word of God should have the final say in how we respond
and react, and the more Word we get in us, the more we become
that Proverbs 31 woman that God predestined us to be.
But the Comforter, which is the Holy Ghost, whom the Father will send in my name, he shall teach you all things, and bring all things to your remembrance, whatsoever I have said unto you. John 14:26
As you seek His face and His Word more each day, He will teach
you how to be prudent (Proverbs 19:14), He will teach you how to
have patience, He will teach you how to walk in love with the
seemingly unlovable, He will teach you how to pray for the lost,
and He will teach you how to be a wife.
Kim Brooks, author of bestselling novels, She That Findeth, He\'s Fine...But is He Saved? and more. www.kimontheweb.com
Published by Kim Brooks www.KimOnTheWeb.com
A refreshing voice for today’s Christian single, Kim Brooks is the Award-winning, National Bestselling author of novel, He's Fine...But is He Saved? its sequel and her latest novel, She That Findeth - an Atria/Simon & Schuster release. As a licensed minister, she is also the author of several self-help books and eBooks including, How To Date and Stay Saved and Singles, Overcome! A former guest columnist for Gospel Today and with appearances on The Word Network and in EBONY Magazine, Kim Brooks shares, through the Word of God, how it is possible to live an exciting, purpose-driven, drama-free abstinent until marriage lifestyle in the perfect will of God. Subscribe to her free daily devotional for singles, which reaches thousands globally, and for more information about her books and booking visit www.KimOnTheWeb.com
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