Recently I’ve been getting more and
more emails from single women asking me
what I think about Christian online dating
which is growing in popularity due to what
I believe as intense marketing and intense
presence of dating websites geared towards
Christians such as
and also secular ones
that allow you to be selective with your possible
matches by stressing the importance of your
potential match also sharing your faith such as
For this reason I am led to address this issue.
First, let me start by saying that I am in no way a head cheerleader for Christian
dating websites, however at the same time, I, personally, know of at least five
Christian women who initially met their now husbands online and I, personally,
do not see anything wrong with utilizing Christian online dating as an alternative way
to meet people who share your same beliefs.
Scripturally, the only requirement for believers to marry is that they both be equally yoked
according to 2 Corinthians 6:14 – there is no restriction as to how you initially connect,
however because there are some crazies out here and perverts posing as prophets setting
up profiles, there are several precautions you need to take in order to remain safe AND
Spirit-led if you’re led to go this route.
Know this, Christian online dating is NOT for every body, yet I realize more and more women
either already have their profile out there online somewhere or are strongly considering it.
So before you continue or set up your Christian online dating profile in order to meet new single
Christian men or to be found by your husband online, I strongly recommend you read the following
first, in order to keep you safe and led by the Spirit and not anxious or just led by the
flesh or your own desire for marriage so much so that you end up connecting with a
man you met online that you should never have connected with in the first place.
Inside you will discover the benefits and red flags to look out for with Christian
You will find out not only its pros and cons but also how to be safe, how to not be deceived,
how to be led by the Spirit while dating and how to avoid setting up a Christian online dating
profile for all the wrong reasons.
So before you join or continue on a Christian dating website – read this first.
Know that ultimately a decision to participate in a Christian dating website is an individual one
between you and God and by the end of the eBook you should know whether or not Christian
online dating is God’s will for you.
So … here it is… to answer all of your questions and even more… presenting my newest
Kim Brooks, author of bestselling novels, She That Findeth, He\'s Fine...But is He Saved? and more. www.kimontheweb.com